When life calls, sometimes we have to take part in decisions that are out of our control. There are many reasons why long distance comes between lovers, and many people face the prospect of being hundreds, or even thousands of miles away from their loved one on a daily basis. There’s no doubt that long distance relationships have their own unique challenges, particularly if you have only just met. But does this mean that they are doomed from the start? Much of long distance romance is down to compromise and negotiation, and if both parties feel exactly the same, no matter how far apart, there is no reason why they should become emotionally disconnected. If you have found yourself in a long distance relationships there are some simple adjustments to your attitude and lifestyle that will ensure you keep your loved one in your life. Acceptance One of the first things you should do when entering into a long distance relationship is to accept that there are no “regular” relationships. Even the strongest relationships face problems and hurdles regardless of geographical boundaries, so take advantage of the positives that come with extended time apart. Distance gives you both room to grow individually and the opportunity to step back to appreciate the beauty of your connection. You may find that getting to know your partner thoroughly over time forms a deep and powerful bond that other couples may not share. Trust Long distance makes it much harder to judge and trust your partner. If your gut is telling you that something’s up then don’t ignore it. But by the same token, don’t keep yourself awake with nightmare theories. Feelings of uncertainty are completely normal so discuss your worries honestly and openly with your partner. Communication Communication is a must to keep up the rhythm and flow of your connection. Advanced technology can help keep this link strong, so utilise instant messaging or video chat. No matter how far apart you are, you can still feel the spark through a message, thought or phone call. Patience Exercise your patience by focusing on the positives of your relationship, and keep long-term goals in mind. The more time you spend in a negative frame of mind, the more you will cause unnecessary strain and stress to your relationship. Visualise success and it will happen. While some long distance relationships come to a natural end, some will flourish and grow through distance. If you are keen to know what the future holds for your long distance relationship, then a Tarot Reading may a good place to start. Tarot cards are commonly used to understand a person’s current situation and what events they can expect to encounter in their future. A reading may be able to guide you to make a decision about your long distance relationship, or reassure you that you and your partner are on the right path. Some of Psychic Light’s specialist Tarot readers include: Diana Alice Hayley Joanna Matthew Penny Simply identify which of our readers is available and get in touch today!